There’s a difference between being wanted and being chosen.
Being wanted is easy.
A man can want you for your looks, your body, your personality, your lifestyle—or just for a season in his life.
Being wanted can happen in a fleeting moment, at a glance, with very little commitment attached. That kind of “want” can fade just as quickly as it appeared.
But being chosen?
That’s something entirely different.
1. Chosen Means Commitment
When a man chooses you, he’s not just acknowledging attraction—he’s committing himself to your life and your future together.
He’s saying, I see the world full of options, and I still want to build my life with you. That’s a deliberate decision, not an accident of chemistry.
2. Chosen Means Sacrifice
A good man doesn’t choose lightly. Choosing you means he has passed on other opportunities, temptations, and possibilities because he sees the most value in you. It’s not just about preference—it’s about priority.
3. Chosen Means Endurance
Anyone can want you when you’re young, vibrant, and in your best season. But a man who has truly chosen you will still stand beside you when life gets difficult, when looks change, and when the easy days turn into hard ones. Wanting is temporary; choosing is enduring.
4. Chosen Means Respect
When you’re chosen, you’re not just a romantic interest—you’re a partner.
Your opinions matter.
Your needs matter.
Your growth matters.
A man who chooses you sees your worth beyond the surface.
The Reminder
If you have a good man who has chosen you, honor that choice.
Appreciate it.
Nurture the relationship.
Because in a world full of people chasing temporary wants, being chosen is a rare and powerful thing.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 