The Rational Ram

Today’s post contains… No therapy tone. No manosphere cope. No feminist pandering. Just the blunt truth. Gentlemen, if this post makes you angry, defensive, or eager to explain why it “doesn’t apply to you,” congratulations—you’re exactly who I wrote it for. 1. You’re Not “Unlucky” — You’re Unprepared You don’t have bad luck. You have: […]

Let’s drop the fairy tales. Yes, being pretty, thin, and young gets attention. No, it does not buy commitment. And pretending it does is why so many women are stuck in endless situationships with men who never choose them. Translation: What Beauty Actually Buys You Beauty buys: It does not buy: Attention is cheap. Commitment […]

Preface: I wrote a previous blog post about the five male archetypes and why they are all wrong over five years ago. https://therationalram.blog/2020/03/08/the-five-male-archetypes/ The archetypes described in that post are alpha (as in “alpha male”), sigma, beta, gamma, and omega. I pointed out in that post that these archetypes are mere caricatures conceived by manosphere […]

1. Average male height in the U.S. The average adult male height is about 69 inches (5 ft 9 in).  2. Distribution of heights Heights follow a normal (bell-curve) distribution with a mean ~69 inches and standard deviation ~2.5–2.65 inches. About 68% of men fall within one standard deviation of the mean (roughly 66–72 inches).  […]

Let’s be honest instead of polite… Yes — being short is considered a negative for men. Not because it actually ruins relationships…but because modern dating is driven by optics, fantasy, and laziness. And the obsession with tall men? That part is mathematically stupid. Why Height Got Weaponized in Dating Height became shorthand for masculinity because […]

The Uncomfortable Economics Fans Don’t Want to Face The claim that modern sports has become entertainment is often framed as an accusation—as if something pure was stolen. But the truth is simpler and less conspiratorial… If sports didn’t evolve into entertainment, it would collapse under its own economics. Not because people are stupid. Not because […]

And Why So Many People Refuse to Believe It Most people hear the phrase “sports is scripted” and immediately picture someone wearing a tin foil hat, yelling about magnets in basketballs and rigged goalposts. That reaction is intentional. Because the truth isn’t that sports outcomes are fully fixed—it’s that sports operates under the same entertainment […]

Every generation thinks it has it worse than the previous generations. But the current generation might be the first to confuse discomfort with injustice — and then build an entire identity around avoiding both. Let’s separate reality from coping narratives. 1. Yes, Some Things Are Objectively Harder (Let’s Be Fair) Before the comments explode — […]

Spoiler: It’s not the powerful—it’s the insecure, the pretenders, and the quietly neurotic 1. The Wannabe Alpha With No Actual Influence He quotes the 48 Laws like scripture but has no authority, network, or results. Talks about power because he’s never had any. 2. The Corporate Middle Manager With a Napoleon Complex Wears “strategy” like […]

The masculine guide to being respected, desired, and chosen — not “kept around.” I preface this post by saying that men and women can be friends. No strings attached, no hidden agendas, just honest to goodness friendship. I think it’s both healthy and essential for men to have genuine platonic friendships with women and vice […]