“It didn’t mean anything.”
That’s what cheaters say when they get caught.
Translation: “I gambled our entire relationship for a five-minute ego boost, but please don’t make me feel bad about it.”
Cheating isn’t an “oops.” It’s a decision. A choice to risk your partner’s trust for a cheap thrill. And anyone who says it “didn’t mean anything” is really saying you don’t mean enough.
Think about it…
If it meant nothing, why lie?
If it meant nothing, why risk your family, your future, and your partner’s peace of mind?
If it meant nothing, why hide your phone like it’s the nuclear codes?
“It didn’t mean anything” is emotional gaslighting. It’s a cheater’s way of telling you your heartbreak is an overreaction. But their actions already screamed the truth…
They wanted it.
They planned it.
They did it.
And here’s the real kicker…
If it truly “didn’t mean anything,” they wouldn’t have done it.
Stop letting “It didn’t mean anything” soften the blow.
It meant enough for them to betray you.
It meant enough for them to risk losing you.
It meant enough to prove their character.
Cheating always means something. And if someone tries to downplay it?
That tells you even more…
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 