Some of you are so addicted to chaos that a healthy, stable relationship feels “boring.” That’s not a flex—that’s a trauma response.
You call “predictable” lame because you’ve confused drama with passion. You think constant arguments mean they “care,” and jealousy means they “love you.” No. That’s dysfunction.
“Predictable” means they come home when they say they will.
It means they don’t disappear for hours or flirt with half the internet.
It means loyalty, consistency, and a safe space where you can actually breathe.
But let’s be real: some of you will throw away a stable, respectful partner because peace feels foreign.
You’ll call it “boring,” then go chase someone who gives you anxiety and call that “love.”
Predictability isn’t the problem—disrespect is.
A partner who’s consistently dismissive or selfish isn’t better just because they keep you guessing.
That’s just abuse with good PR.
Stop glamorizing chaos.
Stop rejecting stability.
Real love is calm, steady, and yes—predictable.
If you can’t handle that, maybe you’re not ready for the kind of relationship you claim you want.
The fact that the sun rises in the east and sets in west is predictable, but I am sure if the sun didn’t rise at all, that would be problematic.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 