Let’s talk about it: some women actively choose broke, unstable men who bring chaos into their lives.
They’ll cry about “all men being trash” while ignoring the guy with a career, a plan, and his life together.
Why?
Because drama feels like passion.
Here are the uncomfortable truths:
Excitement Over Stability
Peace feels “boring” when you’re addicted to chaos. That 3 a.m. fight, the constant emotional rollercoaster—that’s not love. That’s dysfunction disguised as passion.
Confidence Over Character
A broke thug doesn’t need money to act like he’s “the man.” And sadly, many women fall for that fake alpha energy over a man who actually has discipline and direction.
Rebellion Over Reason
Choosing a dangerous guy feels like “freedom” for some. But rebellion is a phase—regret is permanent.
The Savior Complex
Some women crave the idea of “fixing” a broken man.
Here’s the twist: he doesn’t want to be fixed. He’s perfectly fine draining your energy, your time, and your bank account.
Masculinity Misunderstood
Many mistake recklessness for strength. They think aggression is manhood. Meanwhile, the man who works hard, leads quietly, and treats her well gets called “soft.”
The problem isn’t that “good men don’t exist.” The problem is too many women chase drama over discipline, then cry victim when life gets hard.
The thug life feels sexy… until he’s using your car, eating your groceries, and you’re crying because he’s cheating with your friend.
Newsflash: real men are out there. But if you’re addicted to chaos, you won’t see them until you’re tired, broke, and bitter.
These are the cold, hard facts.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 