Preface: Let me make it abundantly clear that what I mean by “buy women” has nothing to do with the “world’s oldest profession” (aka: prostitution). This is an observational indictment of transactional men who use money and resources to attract women.
Let’s be clear: a man who has to buy a woman doesn’t respect her—he’s renting an illusion.
When you reduce intimacy, companionship, or even marriage to a transaction, you’re not investing in a person—you’re purchasing compliance. And compliance isn’t love, loyalty, or respect.
Buying access doesn’t build value in the man either. It signals that he can’t attract genuine desire, so he substitutes money for magnetism. He’s not chosen—he’s tolerated until the money runs out.
Women on the receiving end of this arrangement get the short end too.
If a man is willing to pay to keep you around, he’s also willing to replace you the moment a “better deal” appears. You’re not special—you’re an invoice.
A high-value man doesn’t need to buy a woman, because he’s built himself into someone women choose. And a woman who respects herself doesn’t sell affection, because she knows her value is beyond price.
The truth?
When men buy women, neither party ends up valued—they both end up used.
If you have to pay for love, you’re not a partner—you’re a customer.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 