The Penis Size Myth: Women Care Way Less Than You Think—But Here’s What They Actually Judge You On

Let’s just say it…

The men who obsess over penis size do so because it’s easier than admitting they suck at everything else.

Some facts upfront…

The average penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, with one study finding that nearly everyone falls within this range. Penis enlargement methods do exist, but many may be harmful, do not work, or only have temporary effects.

https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/average-penis-size

More facts…

Penis size is not nearly as important as the media would make you think. In fact, bigger penises are more likely to lead to pain, gagging, and tearing. When it comes to giving pleasure, size has nothing to do with it.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/does-size-matter

With these facts out of the way, let’s focus on myth busting…

Some men blame their love life on inches while ignoring the fact that they’re broke, unfit, insecure, and emotionally clueless.

Here’s the harsh reality:

Most women don’t care about size.

They care that you don’t know how to lead, protect, or turn them on emotionally.

Being big doesn’t make you good in bed. It just makes it hurt more when you’re bad (see facts above).

Women talk way more about your hygiene, confidence, and personality than your length.

The guys most obsessed with size are usually compensating for zero game, zero ambition, and zero masculinity.

And ladies…?

Don’t act innocent.

Some of you clown men over size while crying in the shower over a toxic “bad boy” who treats you like trash. If you’re going to set “six inches minimum” standards, at least hold yourselves to a standard of femininity and loyalty.

Meanwhile, porn is poisoning everyone’s brains. Some men think they need to be horses; some women think every guy is, or should be.

Reality?

Average is normal. Nobody sane is rejecting a good man over half an inch.

Here’s the truth bomb nobody wants to hear…

If she doesn’t respect you, size won’t save you. If she desires you, size won’t matter.

Masculinity, confidence, and self-respect are what keep her hooked—not your anatomy.

So, men, stop crying about genetics and start leveling up. Women, stop pretending you’re not shallow, and start valuing what actually matters.

Both sides are lying to each other, and that’s why everyone’s miserable.

-The Rational Ram