Another two part post. One for men, one for women. I want to capture both perspectives in this post.
Men start to peak when they hit their late 30s and early 40s. Many are in demand well into their 50s and 60s if they take care of themselves physically and have at least a modest amount of wealth.
Young men should strive to build themselves and keep improving throughout their lives to get to this point in life.
Part 1 is for them…
Part 1: For Men — “Stop Mocking Him, Start Copying Him”
He’s not just older — he’s proof of what happens when you stop wasting time and start building.
This is the blueprint young men should follow.
Be Financially Grounded:
Assets > flexing. You don’t need to become a millionaire, but you should be financially literate and stable.
Comfortable in His Skin:
No need to chase trends or external validation. You should have the self-confidence to validate yourself.
Built Reputation:
His name carries weight offline, in the real world. Internet fame isn’t real.
Plays the Long Game:
Thinks in terms of decades, not weekends.
Leads with Consistency:
Doesn’t need to shout to be respected. A lion doesn’t have to roar to announce himself.
Selective, Not Desperate:
His standards make him more attractive. He’s not desperate because he has options, and the ladies know it.
Stable = Magnetic:
What some misguided women call “boring” is what smart, wise women line up for.
Closing thought 💭 (Part 1)
Stop mocking the older man with his life together — copy him. If you don’t, you’ll still be broke, bitter, and blaming women while he’s living the life you wish you had.
Part 2: For Women — “Why You Secretly Want Him”
It’s not just his age — it’s the peace, power, and protection he built while everyone else was playing games.
Stability Is Sexy:
Calm feels like safety. Because it often is.
Proven, Not Promising:
You’re not gambling on potential. The real deal is obvious and tangible.
Confidence That’s Earned:
Built through real-world challenges.
No Games:
Clarity > breadcrumbing.
Emotionally Mature:
Doesn’t make you guess where you stand.
Selectivity Is Hot:
Being chosen by a man with options feels different.
Living Proof That Building Pays Off:
He embodies the advice “choose wisely.”
Closing thought 💭 (Part 2):
Young men post memes — older men post results.
No wonder so many women quietly keep their eyes on the man who already built the life they want to join.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 