Ladies: He’s Not Your Escape — He’s Your Mistake
If you think the guy texting you that “you deserve better” is your way out, he’s actually the trapdoor, not the escape hatch.
1. He’s Not Prince Charming — He’s Just Persistent
The man who hypes you up while you trash your husband isn’t noble — he’s opportunistic.
2. He Wants the Thrill, Not the Responsibility
He loves the chase, the secrecy, the drama — but he’s not lining up to pay your bills or raise your kids.
3. You’ll Lose Respect Before You Lose Your Ring
Once the affair is out, you won’t be the “woman who risked everything for true love” — you’ll just be another woman who cheated.
4. You’ll Trade a Good Man for a Good Time
Affair partners are never as exciting once you are available out in the open (as opposed to in secrecy).
What felt like passion will look like chaos once the affair is exposed to daylight.
5. You’ll Carry the Guilt Long After The Affair Partner Is Gone
Because he will be gone, as affair partners seldom hang around when they can have you full time and openly. And you’ll be left with the damage, the divorce, and the DMs you can’t un-send.
Closing Thought 💭
If he’s willing to help you blow up your marriage, he’s not rescuing you — he’s burying you.
Men: She’s Not Your Fantasy — She’s Your Fallout
If you think the woman flirting with you on Instagram is the answer to your boredom, she’s actually the start of your bankruptcy.
1. She Loves the Drama More Than She Loves You
She’s not after your heart — she’s after the excitement of sneaking around. Women love the thrill of taking another woman’s man as much as men like conquering another man’s wife.
2. You’re Not a Stud — You’re a Target
If she’s willing to cheat with you, she doesn’t respect you as a man. She’s using you as proof she can still “pull.” You’re not special — you’re just next.
3. You’ll Lose Far More Than You’ll Gain
House, kids, money, peace of mind — all gone. And for what? A fling that won’t last six months in the daylight.
4. She Won’t Respect the Man Who Risked It All
The woman who encourages you to betray your wife isn’t impressed by your “loyalty”— she just proved you aren’t loyal.
5. You’ll End Up Alone and Paying for It
Literally.
Alimony, child support, therapy bills — hope it was worth it. Your tryst might become the most expensive decision of your life, because you’ll be paying for it for years.
Closing thought 💭
If she’s willing to wreck your family to have you, she’ll wreck you when she’s done.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 