His and her edition. Let’s go…
💋 HER EDITION: Why Women Slut-Shame Other Women
Women don’t slut-shame because they hate promiscuity…
They slut-shame because they hate competition that plays by different rules.
1. Slut-Shaming Isn’t Moral — It’s Strategic
When a woman calls another woman a “slut,” it’s rarely about ethics.
It’s about economics.
If intimacy becomes cheap, attention loses its value.
And in a world where attention is currency, women who trade sex for validation are seen as flooding the market.
The message beneath the insult?
“Stop making what I offer worth less.”
2. The Real Enemy Isn’t the “Slut” — It’s Devaluation
Women who invest in being “wife material” — disciplined, loyal, refined— feel threatened by women who get the same or more attention by giving away easily what should be earned by men.
It’s not hate. It’s market panic.
She’s protecting her strategy.
Because if “easy” becomes normalized, then the “earned” path starts to look overpriced.
I might add that in dating markets that are female-heavy (less men, more women), promiscuous women are viewed as diluting the perceived value of women overall in a dating environment where women who are either actually wife material or pretend to be have to compete even harder for Mr. Right since he has the luxury of acting like Mr. Right Now with the promiscuous woman..
3. It’s About Power, Not Purity
Slut-shaming isn’t a call for virtue — it’s a call for control.
It’s about policing access to sex. Remember, women are the gatekeepers to sex.
Maintaining and controlling access also maintains leverage in a world where beauty fades, but reputation doesn’t.
Men may say, “She’s for the streets.”
But women whisper it first — because they know how fast the streets can steal their thunder.
Closing Thought 💭 (HERS)
Slut-shaming is the female version of economic warfare.
It’s not about who gives it up — it’s about who gives away leverage.
👑 HIS EDITION: Why Men Simp-Shame Other Men
Men don’t simp-shame because they hate kindness…
They simp-shame because they hate seeing the game rigged by men who play without self-respect.
1. Simp-Shaming Is Market Regulation
When a man calls another man a “simp,” he’s not defending masculinity — he’s defending mating leverage.
If women start receiving unlimited attention, validation, or money without effort, the value of male effort collapses.
The game becomes unwinnable for men who still play by the rules of merit and restraint.
So the “simp” becomes the inflation agent — flooding the market with free attention and devaluing every man’s currency.
2. It’s About Discipline, Not Misogyny
Men who simp-shame aren’t always cruel — they’re often frustrated.
They understand that every time a man overpays emotionally or financially, it raises the price of affection for everyone else.
It’s not hate. It’s economics.
They’re trying to protect the meaning and value of effort.
3. Simp-Shaming Masks Envy Too
Ironically, many men who mock “simps” secretly wish they could be that emotionally open — without being humiliated for it.
But vulnerability has no prestige in male hierarchies.
So instead of admitting envy, they weaponize shame.
Remember that men are the gatekeepers to marriage and relationships. Marriage and long-term relationships require a man to be vulnerable. Both parties to a marriage give each other the power to destroy one another.
To give a woman who hasn’t earned it that kind of power is seen as making commitment a cheap commodity.
Closing Thought 💭 (HIS)
Simp-shaming is the male version of market protection.
It’s not about hating love — it’s about hating imbalance.
Because when men give too much for too little, they don’t just lose women — they lose leverage.
🔁 Final Thought 💭 (for both posts):
Both slut-shaming and simp-shaming are mirror reactions to the same fear. That someone else is giving away for free what you’re trying to charge a premium for.
One protects access.
The other protects effort.
Both expose the same truth —we’re not as moral as we pretend, just territorial about our perceived value.
Shaming the “simp” and the “slut” doesn’t change anything unless society as a whole shames such behavior, which will only drive it underground. Human nature is human nature.
Simping and slutting are outward symptoms of the same dysfunction…
Low self-esteem combined with low self-respect.
The slut and the simp create their own problems. Both are exploited. Victims of the circumstances their behaviors create.
Many of the people shaming them ironically reveal their own dysfunction…
Shallowness.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 