Preface: Please consider this post a PSA…
Sex feels casual now.
Dating feels disposable.
Cheating feels normal.
And promiscuity feels like a “phase” instead of risk-taking that requires Herculean responsibility.
But here’s the part nobody posts, nobody brags about, and nobody includes in their “hot girl summer” or “toxic boy winter” highlights…
STDs are rising, testing is declining, and too many people are playing sexual Russian roulette because they the consequences are vintage.
This isn’t about shaming.
It’s about reality.
Two perspectives.
Same truth…
Your sexual choices don’t just affect you. They affect every person who touches you.
HIS EDITION: “Bro, You Are NOT Invincible.”
1. Cheating Isn’t Just Disrespect — It’s Endangerment
Men love to say, “It was just physical” as if there are no consequences beyond ruining relationships.
It’s NOT just physical or emotional when you:
-Go raw
-Don’t ask questions
-Don’t get tested then go home and sleep with your partner
That’s not “just physical.”
That’s a biological risk to someone who trusts you.
2. Stop Believing Pretty Women Can’t Carry Anything
A lot of men still think “she looks clean” is a medical diagnosis.
Beauty isn’t a screening tool.
Hot girls can catch, carry, and transmit STDs too — especially if you’re not the only one in her rotation.
3. Promiscuity Doesn’t Make You a Player If You’re Unsafe
If you’re rawing multiple women with no testing schedule, no boundaries, and no honesty?
You’re not a player.
You’re a liability.
A high-value man protects his health like he protects his money — with structure, discipline, and standards.
4. Your Ego Won’t Save You From Biology
STDs don’t care:
-How fit you are
-How masculine you are
-How much you bench
-How much you earn
-How smooth your game is
Your immune system does not benefit from your swagger.
5. The Woman You Cheat On Pays for the Risks You Take
You might escape symptoms.
She might not.
She’s the one who ends up:
-Scared
-Confused
-In a doctor’s office wondering how she got an STD while being faithful in a monogamous relationship
The trauma hits her body even if the behavior was yours.
6. Condom Avoidance Isn’t “Connection” — It’s Carelessness
If you’re avoiding condoms because:
“It feels better”
“She seemed clean”
“The vibe was right”
Bro…
You’re not connecting.
You’re gambling.
HER EDITION: “Baby, He’s Not Worth Risking Your Health Over.”
1. Cheating Isn’t Empowerment If It Endangers Your Body
Some women treat cheating like revenge or release.
It’s actually risk-taking.
The risks to you that are often ignored are:
-Infections
-Long-term complications
-Reproductive health
All for a man who doesn’t care about you…
That’s stupidity, not empowerment. It’s self-sabotage in lingerie.
2. Stop Assuming Successful Men Are Safe
Women often think…
“He’s established. He must be careful.”
No.
Some of the most reckless men are:
-Rich
-Lonely
-Powerful
-Bored
Money can buy access. It cannot buy cleanliness or prudence or temperance.
3. Promiscuity Isn’t “Living Your Best Life” If You’re Not Testing
Having a roster is fine, if you’re into that sort of thing — as long as you run it like an adult.
But if you’re:
-Not testing
-Not using protection
-Not asking questions
-Not screening partners
…it’s not a “liberation era” or living your best life
It’s unnecessary risk-taking disguised as fun.
4. “He Looks Healthy” Is Not a Medical Evaluation
Women often rely on vibe, chemistry, or appearance as a proxy for safety.
But:
-Clear skin isn’t a sign of STD clearance
-Muscles aren’t medical sign a man is STD-free
-Confidence isn’t a condom
“Looking safe” is not the same as being safe.
5. The Man You Cheat With Doesn’t Care About Protecting You
The guy you cheat with isn’t invested in your long-term health.
He’s not thinking about:
-Your relationship
-Your body
-Your risks
-Your current or future partners
If he was protective, he wouldn’t be sleeping with someone who’s already taken.
6. Your Fertility Is Not a Toy
Women often forget STDs can affect:
-Fertility
-Pregnancy
-Long-term health
This isn’t just about drama.
It’s about your health and your future.
Closing Thought 💭 “If You’re Going to Be Sexually Promiscuous, Be Safe As Well As Honest.”
Whether you’re:
-Cheating
-Exploring
-Rotating partners
-Living the single life
-Enjoying your freedom
Do it responsibly.
✔ Get tested every 3–6 months.
✔ Use protection.
✔ Ask real questions.
✔ Don’t assume anything.
✔ Don’t risk someone else’s health for your fun.
✔ Don’t risk your own body for a thrill that lasts minutes.
You only get one body.
Your health is your greatest asset. It should be protected even more fiercely than your pecuniary investments.
Sex feel good, but STDs don’t.
The risk is real — for him and for her.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 