Ladies, let’s talk about your “advantage.”
Yes, you get more attention.
More DMs, more compliments, more likes, more “hey queen.”
Men are always on the hunt for you.
But here’s the catch…
Most of the attention you get is from men who don’t actually want you.
They want access to you.
Attention is not admiration.
Attention is not commitment.
Attention is not a résumé for a relationship.
1. Male attention creates an illusion of abundance that many women fall prey to
Men think they don’t have enough options.
Women think they have too many.
Both are wrong.
Women receive plenty of male attention… but only a minuscule percentage of the men providing that attention are worth choosing.
2. Attention fools women into thinking they’re irreplaceable
If ten, twenty, fifty men are orbiting you, it’s easy to believe:
“I’m special.”
“I’m rare.”
“I can do better.”
“I’ll always have this level of power.”
Until reality says:
“You have the illusion of power and options you don’t really want or that don’t want you (so not really options).”
3. Attention is the number-one cause of modern female relationship chaos
Attention makes some women:
-Leave good men
-Delay commitment
-Date just for the dopamine rush
-Believe every man is replaceable
-Chase men who will never be serious about them
-Overestimate their dating leverage
The tragedy?
Nothing collapses faster than inflated self-perception.
4. Attention doesn’t protect you from the truth
The truth is simple…
Men value what they earn.
Women value what they feel.
Attention makes women feel valued without men actually investing anything.
It’s a scam.
A beautifully packaged scam, but a scam nonetheless.
5. Attention expires, but regret doesn’t
Every man knows women get flooded with male attention.
Every older woman knows it doesn’t last.
Every younger woman pretends she’ll be the exception.
But attention is like youth…
You should enjoy it now, but you don’t earn the dividends from it until later if you leverage it correctly in the present—or you’ll become bitter when it fades.
In other words, women shouldn’t squander the wonderful filter that abundant male attention gives them when they’re younger under the delusion that the attention will last forever.
Use the filter to find a good man (“earning the dividends from it later”) and build a life with him.
Closing Thought 💭
Ladies, you don’t need less attention. You need better filters.
Be disciplined enough to use your advantage to screen out the men who aren’t worthy of you.
Because nothing is sadder than a woman surrounded by male attention, yet starving for real love.
Attention isn’t value.
Attention isn’t intention.
Attention isn’t commitment.
It’s just noise.
Real value?
That comes from the one man who invests in you, not the hundreds of men who tap “like” or slip into your DMs.
-The Rational Ram
The Rational Ram 