The Rational Ram

The Not-So-Known Debate on Social Media This question blows up online every time it comes up. A man shows up with food for his kid, the mother has other kids from other men, and suddenly everyone is arguing: Should he feed just his own child—or all the kids in the house? I present the “case […]

Preface: I’ve written at least two previous posts about the female dual-mating strategy. To recap what the dual-mating strategy is, some women may seek long-term stability from one partner while simultaneously being drawn to traits (such as physical dominance, charisma, or confidence) in another partner—especially during fertile phases. The strategy, at some point in a […]

Sleeping with someone’s husband doesn’t make you powerful — it makes you the side character in a tragedy you wrote yourself. 1. It’s Not “Winning” — It’s Losing With Glitter You think you’ve stolen something. But all you really got was a man who was willing to betray the woman he vowed to love — […]

Preface: I haven’t touched alcohol in close to three years. My last drink was 24 October 2022. The day before my “rebirth,” also known as my open heart surgery 💙 I was never an alcoholic in the sense of being a “problem drinker.” When I drank alcohol, I did so “responsibly” 🙄. Which is to […]

Ladies, if your desire to be “more than a wife and a mother” is really just a desire to impress men who aren’t your husband, that’s not empowerment — that’s insecurity. 1. The Secret Audience in Her Head A lot of women don’t just want to feel “seen.” They want to feel seen by men […]

Preface: As a fan of Judge Judy, I absolutely love it when she reminds a young, beautiful, vibrant, and entitled woman litigant in her court that “beauty fades, stupid lasts forever.” That saying conveys a fundamental truth about life that few people accept or acknowledge until they live long enough to experience it first hand, […]

Oscar Wilde’s definition of a cynic still cuts like a knife: “What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.” He wrote that over a century ago — and it’s even truer today. 1. Price Without Perspective Cynics measure life in dollars and cents. They can tell […]

Let’s be real: after 50, a lot of couples start having less sex — sometimes none at all. But men and women often blame each other instead of looking at their own side of the equation. Here’s the truth, split down the middle — plus what each gender can do about it. For Men: Why […]

Let’s just say it… The men who obsess over penis size do so because it’s easier than admitting they suck at everything else. Some facts upfront… The average penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, with one study finding that nearly everyone falls within this range. Penis enlargement methods do exist, but many may be […]

🔒 10 Boundaries That Protect a Relationship From Cheating Cheating doesn’t start in the bedroom — it starts with small compromises, secret conversations, and weak boundaries. Most affairs don’t “just happen.” They’re the natural result of letting temptation get too close, too often. If you want a relationship that lasts, you need clear, unapologetic boundaries […]