Preface: I wrote about “the man with options” on this blog in 2020.
https://therationalram.blog/2020/05/23/the-man-with-options/
This post is a bit more pithy…
You think the man with options is the one with six-pack abs, a luxury car, and a lineup of women in his DMs.
Wrong.
That guy isn’t “winning”—he’s just entertainment.
His “options” are women who want a night out, not a future.
The real man with options?
He doesn’t chase you.
He doesn’t post thirst traps or flex cash.
He doesn’t need validation, attention, or drama.
He chooses women—he’s never chosen by them.
Women confuse attention with intention.
The loud guy flashing money has plenty of attention. The disciplined man with standards has intention—and that’s what makes him rare.
A man with options isn’t looking for another fling; he’s deciding who actually deserves access to him and his world.
Most women don’t realize they’ve met him until he’s already chosen someone who respects his peace.
The men you think are in demand are often broke, insecure, and addicted to validation.
The ones who really have options?
They’re quiet, dangerous, and impossible to replace.
-The Rational Ram
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